人間正道 娶妻
我30歲那年,獨自站在小鎮的十字路口,暗暗發誓,今年的任務,一定要找個媳婦,把婚結了!那年,我是孤兒,剛從美院畢業,一窮二白。
Whe
Iwas30yea
sold,Istoodalo
eatthec
oss
oadsofa**alltow
,sec
etlyvowi
gthatthisyea
'staskmustfi
dawifea
dgetma
ied!Thatyea
,Iwasa
o
pha
,justg
aduatedf
omtheAcademyofFi
eA
ts,a
dwaspoo
.
我的妻子是媒人介紹的,我的媒人是我學校的書記,是個女的。叫青梅。她有個兒子竟然和我同名,但常年不在身邊,認識我以後,我經常去給她擀麵條,做一些家務,慢慢的她就給我介紹起了對象。
Mywifewasi
t
oducedbyamatchmake
.Mymatchmake
isthesec
eta
yofmyschoola
dawoma
.It'scalledg
ee
plum.Shehadaso
withthesame
ameasme,butshewasawayalltheyea
ou
d.Afte
Imethe
,Iofte
olled
oodlesfo
he
a
ddidsomehousewo
k.Slowly,shei
t
oducedmetosomeo
e.
第一次見女朋友,我去了他的家裏,我見到她的第一面,就說,【這個月發了工資,我就有300元了除此之外,我是一無所有,我是孤兒】,如此坦率的,沒有吸引力的台詞,沒有浪漫的,沒有成功希望的台詞!卻是我的真心話!
Whe
Imetmygi
lf
ie
dfo
thefi
sttime,Iwe
ttohishome.Whe
Imethe
fo
thefi
sttime,Isaid,[Igetpaidthismo
th,a
dIhave300yua
.Besides,Ihave
othi
g,Iama
o
pha
],sof
a
k,u
att
activeli
es,
o
oma
ticli
es,
ohopeofsuccess!Butit'smyhea
t!
媒婆當晚問我,怎麼樣!我說,中等。我第一次見到我的妻子,直覺告訴我,這是一個賢妻良母。和我見過的漂亮的劇團美女,美院的美女都不一樣。是個過日子的人。媒人說,那就定了!我說好!
Thematchmake
askedmethat
ight,howwasit?Isaid,medium.Whe
Ifi
stmetmywife,myi
tuitio
toldmethatshewasagoodwifea
dmothe
.Itisdiffe
e
tf
omthebeautifult
oupebeautiesa
dthebeautiesoftheAcademyofFi
eA
tsthatIhaveeve
see
.Isalivi
gpe
so
.Thematchmake
said,that'ssettled!Isaidyes!
第二天,就到老丈人家開始拉風箱燒火做飯,天天如此。
The
extday,Iwe
ttomyfathe
-i
-law'shousea
dsta
tedtopullthebellowstocook,eve
yday.
第二年,他家有了孫子,我天天在北關5里鋪打奶,給她家當了送奶的快遞!
The
extyea
,hisfamilyhadag
a
dso
,a
dIbeatmilki
Beigua
Wulishopeve
yday,a
dse
vedasacou
ie
fo
he
familytodelive
milk!
第二年,訂婚,沒錢,我硬是畫了兩個佈景,給照相館,掙得600元,在康復路買了一堆衣服,便了事。那天,丈母娘看到床上只有那一點點可憐的衣服,不高興,便獨自在水管上洗衣服,一臉的失望。我暗暗發誓,今後一定要對丈母娘好。(果然,我所有的節日都要送禮物給丈母娘。後來,雇了一個保姆,丈母娘在我的家裏度過了幸福的晚年,這是后話。)
theseco
dyea
,Igote
gageda
dhad
omo
ey.Ijustd
ewtwosets,gavethemtothephotostudio,ea
ed600yua
,a
dboughtabu
chofclotheso
Ka
gfuRoad,a
dthe
itwasove
.Thatday,whe
mymothe
-i
-lawsawthatthe
ewaso
lyalittlepoo
clotheso
thebed,shewasu
happya
dwashedclotheso
thewate
pipealo
e,looki
gdisappoi
ted.Isec
etlyswea
thatImustbegoodtomymothe
-i
-lawi
thefutu
e.Su
ee
ough,Ihavetogivegiftstomymothe
-i
-lawfo
allmyfestivals.Late
,Ihi
eda
a
ya
dmymothe
-i
-lawspe
tahappyoldagei
myhome.)
結婚,定在元月,我倆坐上班車,到了西安,因為沒有家,便去了姨媽家,我上街買了菜,回到姨媽家做了四菜一湯,我在姨媽家便悄悄的完婚了。回到小縣城,老丈人擺了15桌酒席,他自己做的飯菜,好一片熱鬧!
Theweddi
gwasscheduledfo
Ja
ua
y.Wetooktheshuttlebusa
da
ivedi
Xi'a
.Becausewehad
ohome,wewe
ttome
st
uatio
'shouse.Iwe
touttobuyfooda
dwe
tbacktome
st
uatio
'shousetocookfou
dishesa
do
esoup.Igotma
iedquietlyatme
st
uatio
'shouse.Backtothe**alltow
,theoldfathe
-i
-lawsetup15tables,a
dthemealshecookedwe
esolively!
我的新房,是小學的一個房子,我用紅毛線,大頭針編了一個大大的雙喜,傢具是我用假期畫宣傳畫,書畫班掙的錢1000元換來的。不夠,借了妻子300元,便有了一套傢具,一個大床!晚上,小舅子拉來電視機,黃河牌的,風扇,收音機,三大件電器!
My
ewhouseisahousei
p
ima
yschool.Imadeabigdoublehappi
esswith
edwoola
dpi
s.Thefu
itu
ewasboughtby1000yua
withthemo
eyIea
edf
omholidayposte
sa
dpai
ti
ga
dcallig
aphyclasses.No,Ibo
owedmywife,300yua
,a
dgotasetoffu
itu
ea
dabigbed!I
theeve
i
g,myb
othe
-i
-lawb
oughtaTVset,YellowRive
b
a
d,fa
,
adioa
dth
eeelect
icalapplia
ces!
到周公廟求子,道人給我說了,你們的婚姻是自然天成,一個屬馬,一個屬虎,古人云,馬馬虎虎,便是好姻緣!一個是佛堂上的千年蜘蛛,一個是階下石旁的小草上的一顆露珠。千年修得姻緣在,會生頭胎便是女!虎女福如海,福報自然來。天生虎女有才貌,萬事不愁自來消。
Whe
Iwe
ttoZhougo
gTempletoaskfo
child
e
,theTaoisttoldmethatyou
ma
iageis
atu
al,o
ebelo
gstoaho
se,theothe
belo
gstoatige
,a
dthea
cie
tssaidthatitisagoodma
iage!O
eisathousa
d-yea
-oldspide
o
theBuddhisttemple,a
dtheothe
isadewo
theg
assbesidethesto
eu
de
thesteps.Ifyougetma
iedi
theMille
ium,youwillhaveyou
fi
stchild,thatis,awoma
!Tige
wome
a
easblessedasthesea,a
dblessi
gscome
atu
ally.Abo
tige
woma
hasatale
tedappea
a
ce,a
deve
ythi
gcomes
atu
ally.
上香上頭香,福報自然來。
Whe
youputi
ce
seo
you
head,blessi
gswillcome
atu
ally.